Changes . . .

It’s been a scintillating weekend of breaking up the girls’ squabbles, food shopping (I had avoided Wal-Mart for an entire month, but I paid for it), and rearranging/tossing. 

Come January 1, the combined forces of Right Angle Consulting, Nap Mats and More and Sassy Onesies will be living happily together in my house.  About 6 months ago, I sat down and actually figured out how much it cost us to have office space between rent, phone, internet, and general expenses.  It turned out to be a large chunk of change, one that would make a serious dent in the amount of debt we still carry from the start up days. 

It’s weird though.  I’ve always taken great pride in explaining very fervently, “Oh no, I don’t work out of my house. We have OFFICE space.”  As if that sentence makes us more legitimate (I still think it does).  I like the physical separation of my private life versus my work one, although my Crackberry is always with me and the separation is really just a facade.  I have always liked “going” somewhere to work. When I first started Right Angle, I worked from home.  Many times I’d find myself doing laundry or watching reruns of ER instead of billing.  I’m still a little afraid of my never-ending to do list around the house, but then I remember the large amount of money being saved and I tell myself to suck it up.  Lots of successful people work from home and it doesn’t mean they are big losers.

These changes have been good in one sense - I spent some time yesterday slogging through the office in our house rearranging and throwing out stuff.  Why have I been holding on to Paul’s thesis drawings from RISD?  Why do I even have them?  And how many broken picture frames does one need?  How many gift bags must one keep?  And am I ever going to play Quake again?  No.  Upstairs, on the third floor, I rearranged both closets to make room for inventory.  I was only sidetracked momentarily when I came across the box with my wedding dress in it.  During one of the moves, the box had come open, so I pulled the dress out.  The waist is impossibly small.  I can’t believe I ever fit in that thing.  Mike kindly reminded me, “Well, you did starve for 6 months to get into it.”  And that was before I pushed two little nuggets out into the world, forever changing the shape of my hips and enlarging my feet a half size. 

Today I’ll finish up the third floor and slowly start bringing things over from the office.  Until I finish up the editorial calendar project, I need to work out of the space, but emotionally I’m already preparing.  Our desks were sold, our files have been consolidated down to two boxes, and there isn’t a whole lot left that we don’t need.  And the best part?  I won’t have to share a bathroom with someone in the building who poops about 6 times a day and smells up the hallway to the office.  Bonus!

Posted November 09, 2008 in Life Outside of Motherhood • (5) CommentsPermalink

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As you know Sean works at home - and as you probably already know, it’s All About Rules. The Shut Door rule. The You Have To Go Outside At Least Once A Day rule. The You Are A Single Mother This Week Rule. The It’s Friday, So Fuck It, Let’s Go Out rule. It took a while to adjust, but now that his company is looking into what its employees do all day (economic downturn = “leaning the operation”), I’d like to tell his boss “My husband works at home and I NEVER see him, so clearly he’s busy!” Although he does have an X box in there. Hrmmm.

What did you do with your wedding dress? No matter how many purges of my closet I do (seven garbage bags in my postpartum I’ll Never Fit Into THAT Agin! phase), I can’t seem to get rid of mine.

 on  11/09  at  01:47 PM

I think this change will be good for you, C. And the cleaning-house the way you’re doing in preparation is good for the soul. I wish you all the best in this next chapter, hon.

 on  11/10  at  03:11 PM

You are doing the right thing!  This will save you money and that’s what it is all about.  I know you, you can make this work!

 on  11/10  at  03:16 PM

LMAO!  What’s with the office pooper!?  I avoid that box with my wedding dress in it like the plague, and for me, it was only 3 years ago!  Working from home will be a good move for you, Homey…but I also get the “wanting to keep it separate” part.  It’ll be all good though…

 on  11/11  at  08:24 PM

My wedding dress was three sizes bigger than I am now. I think we are the only people in the world to lose weight after marriage. Now, if only I could stop the re-gaining.

I work partly at home, but I have to say, I have a HARD time with it. I am never left alone and yesterday Ryan used one of my billing sheets to color on. Fun! It can be done but you have to have reserved time alone to do it. That is where I falter, unless I do paperwork at 2am - and I have.

You will do this though. You are remarkably efficient and focused. To the point where I am a tad envious.

 on  11/14  at  12:08 PM

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